COMMENT ON “THE SCARF”
“The scarf” is a story that, insofar as language can catch reality in
its net, seems true. Here’s what truth I can swear to. I
have a very
close friend whose husband, Bill, is perilously ill with cancer.
My
husband and I live a block from St. Charles Seminary, whose bells, at
6:50 every morning, peal over our neighborhood. When I hear them,
I
frequently pray, and frequently I remember Bill, who lives in
Wisconsin, in my prayers. One winter as I was stumbling
around in our
kitchen, setting on the water to boil for coffee, hearing the bells,
praying for Bill in that unfocused, bleary early morning way, I
recalled that six months before at 6:50, the very same time, it had
been full-out daylight. The birds had been raucous.
Thinking of that
lost light, I felt cold, and I imagined that Bill might be feeling
cold, too. For comfort I imagined the summer bells and the winter
bells as two ends of a long scarf that, across the miles, united
us.